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yogapantsMusic and television has always included sexual undertones and innuendoes. However, Omarion’s hit song “Post To Be” featuring Chris Brown and Jhene Aiko and Nicki Minaj’s song “Truffle Butter” which features Drake and Lil Wayne take the cake!

In Omarian’s song, Jhene Aiko so beautifully sings and boast to all the other women and perhaps men that..

“If your dude come close to me
He gon’ want to ride off in a ghost with me (I’ll make him do it)
I might let your boy chauffeur me
But he got to eat the booty like groceries
But he gotta get rid of these hoes from me
I might have that nigga sailing his soul for me
Ooh, that’s how it post to be
If he wants me to expose the freak ooh”

In Nicki’s song, Drakes states…

“I could probably make some step-sisters fuck each other
Whoop! Talkin’ filets with the truffle butter
Fresh sheets and towels, man she gotta love it
Yeah, they all get what they desire from it
What, tell them niggas we ain’t hidin’ from it…”

and Lil Wayne states…

“Truffle butter on your pussy
Cuddle buddies on the low
You ain’t gotta tell your friend that I eat it in the morning
Cause she gonna say “I know”

While Nicki’s song lyrics are not as blatant but rather a little more suggestive, I think the title of the songs says it all. 

For those of you who don’t know, let me break it down to you. Eating booty like groceries refers to anilingus or oral-anal sex, as known as tossing salad, rimming or rim shot.

Truffle butter is not referring to the gourmet butter that is created by infusing tiny pieces of “truffles,” which is a very rare and edible mushroom. In case Nicki’s song, truffle butter is created when a man pulls his penis out of the anus and immediately inserts it into a woman’s vagina..yup without cleaning if off. During vaginal intercourse, a tan secretion is created as a result of orgasm. The secretion or fluid that is created and forms around the base of the penis, as a result of going from anal to vaginal sex, is a mixture of waste, vaginal fluid and semen. This my Beloved’s is known as truffle butter.

I know what you’re thinking…..YUCK! TMI! Right?

So now that you’re sitting there with a screwed faced, totally grossed out and probably gaged or throw up just a little, let me tell you the problem with eating booty like groceries and making truffle butter! Unfortunately, in our over sexualized and undereducated society, many adolescents and even adults try to mimic the sexual behaviors that are being glamorized by music, media and reality T.V., yet they do not understand all the implications and risks involved. As I am sure you can probably imagine, there is so many risk associated with anal play. For one, the anus is full of bacteria and intestinal parasites! After all one of the essential functions of the anus is the elimination of waste. Not too mention, the lining of the anus is extremely thin which makes it more susceptible to rips and tears during sex. This creates a portal of entry to bacteria and other diseases to go directly into the blood stream. Additionally, the anus does not lubricate itself naturally which means that if you are not using a water-based or silicone-based lubricant, the lining will tear much easier, exposing the blood vessels and again creating a portal of entry for sexually transmitted infections (STIs), hepatitis and other viral diseases. Finally, recent studies suggest a correlation between anilingus/oral sex and oral/throat cancer as well as anal cancer. The correlation is linked to the transmission of genital HPV, the virus that has been implicated in most cervical cancers.

But if you insist on eating booty like groceries and making truffle butter, at least know how to protect yourself and lower the risk of transmission of infections. 1) Always use a latex, polyurethane, or polyisoprene condom when engaging in any anal play,  2) Never go from anus to vagina without washing off the penis or changing the condom, 3) Always use a dental dam for an oral-anal play. If you do not have a dental dam, you can cut  a condom or a piece of plastic wrap and rolled it out flat (Hey..it beats the alternative, right.) 4. Use plenty of water-based or silicone-based lube to help reduce the ripping and tearing to the lining of the anus, and 5) Get to know your sex partner(s). Make sure you know their HIV and STIs status, communicate and ask the right questions. This will also help to reduce your risk of contracting HIV or an STI.  


***Original article posted on MadameNoire**