A. Talk to your partner about the great times you’ve already had in bed. Be very specific about what you need. Rather than criticizing your partner about the things you don’t like, say exactly what you love and tell him you want more of it. You can also take his hands and gently guide them to your “hot spots.” As you guide his hands be sure to moan and groan to indicate that you are turned on and enjoying it. These two techniques will help to ensure that your partner is giving you what you want + boosting his confidence because he knows he’s pleasing you = mind blowing orgasms for both of you!