Q. I am a 25 year old woman and I have never experienced an orgasm! What is the quickest way for me to have one? Can you please tell me?
A. The easiest and quickest way to experience an orgasm is to STOP trying. Having “goal-oriented sex” is a sure way to not meet your “goal!” Women who are more comfortable with their body and overall sexuality are more likely to experience sexual pleasure. Also, having a thorough understanding of your body and how it works helps to increase your chances of experiencing orgasm. Exercising the PC muscles, self-pleasure and talking with your partner about what REALLY gives you pleasure are all helpful techniques. But most importantly RELAX! Tension in your body, stress and emotional blocks will also prevent you from experiencing an orgasm.